10 Things Parents Should Never Do

10 Things Parents Should Never Do

 Photo Credit: John VanderHaagen (Creative Commons)

I’m not generally one to tell people how to live their lives. But if you’re a parent—for your own good—take my advice on these things you should really never do.

1. Take a good, close look at your walls. They will make you want to cry and then hose down your house with disinfectant.

2. Swear. Even if your kid still pronounces “banana” as “babana,” as soon as you drop a profanity —just once—the little tyke will say it perfectly and repeatedly. In the most horrifying of places, of course. Like the doctor’s office. Or your grandmother’s house.

3. Assume that “the toddler who never gets into things” won’t get into things. Our toddler was not the type of kid who would take my $900 camera off its hook, unearth it from its protective bag, and smear liquid hand soap all over it. But, oh yes. He did.

4. Mistake silence for peace. Silence with kids in the house usually means one of three things: 1) They’re doing something they shouldn’t be. 2) They’ve exited the premises without you realizing it. 3) They’ve simultaneously knocked each other unconscious.

5. Reach out your hand when a 3-year-old says, “Here,” without looking to see what she’s giving you. I’ve been handed many a booger that way.

6. Stick your finger down the back of a diaper to see if it’s wet. This one seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised.

7. Give a toddler an Oreo. The combination of toddlers and Oreos creates a chemical reaction that makes matter multiply and spread like a virus. I’m still finding Oreo smears from the time I gave one to our daughter when she was three. She’s now eight.

8. Lean over a crouching child and startle them. A child’s head is a concrete wrecking ball and your nose is a bulls-eye. I’m surprised more parents aren’t killed by having their noses crushed into their brains by little kids’ heads. It hurts. Badly.

9. Tell a kid that the plugged toilet will overflow if they keep flushing it without also explaining that that would be a bad thing. There’s nothing as exciting to a 4-year-old boy as an overflowing toilet.

10. Blink. You’ll miss something. It might be something adorable, it might be something abominable, but either way, it’ll be something you didn’t want to miss.

 

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Annie writes about motherhood and other hilariously beautiful things. On good days, she enjoys juggling life with her husband and three children. On bad days, she binges on chocolate chips and dreams of traveling the world alone.

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  2. Cindy

    i needed a good chuckle tonight (quietly snorting because I just put my two year old to bed). #6 – I still find myself relearning that lesson. Thank you for helping to put life in perspective and for making me laugh.

  3. Anonymous

    LOL silence can be terrifying when babysitting brothers ages 4 & 7…fortunately my own little monster is only 2wks old so silence is peaceful for now…I expect that to change in, oh, maybe a year 😉

  4. Anonymous

    I have bitten my lip so any times because of my daughter’s tough noggin. Most recently in church, where I had to stifle my cry of pain.

    1. Annie Reneau

      What’s really fun is when they smash your nose up into your skull, and you grab your face, hold onto something solid for dear life, swear that you see a tunnel and a light and hear angels singing and are about to meet your Maker . . . and your kid is bouncing away, totally fine.

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